Dinner time chaos? Kids yelling “I’m HUNGRY!” when you’re still in your work clothes? Yes, I’ve been there. For example, every Tuesday at 6:15 PM. This 30-minute chickpea curry is my secret weapon for when everyone needs to eat right away and I’m running out of energy.
I’m making you a promise as a busy parent:
- ✓ 30 minutes from start to finish (and that’s real time, not “Pinterest time”)
- ✓ One-pot wonder—there aren’t many dishes to wash, so you won’t have to do it until 9 p.m.
- ✓ Ingredients that are easy to find in your pantry—no need to go to specialty stores to find them.
- ✓ Flavor that kids like and spice levels that can be changed (start mild, friends)
- ✓ Leftovers taste even better—seriously, this is your lunch for Thursday.
Benefits of real talk: This costs about $2.50 per serving (way less than the pizza you were going to order), it sneaks vegetables past your picky eater’s radar, and it freezes well for those weeks when life gets really crazy. One parent said, “My picky 7-year-old asked for seconds!” I almost fell over.
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How This Recipe Saved Our Family Meals
It’s Wednesday at 5:45 p.m. I just got home from work, the kids are going crazy, the homework isn’t done, and for the third time in ten minutes, someone is asking, “What’s for dinner?” I’m having a small existential crisis while standing in front of the pantry.
Does this sound familiar?
That was my life almost every weeknight until I found this chickpea curry on a particularly busy week when I had already gone through all of my usual dinner options and was dangerously close to serving cereal for dinner again. I needed something quick, used things I already had, and wouldn’t make anyone say, “I don’t like this!”
This recipe made a big difference. Now we have it for dinner every other week, so I’ve probably made it more than 50 times. I’ve tried it on kids from 3 to 12 years old (thanks to playdates and family gatherings), and I’ve changed traditional recipes to make them truly family-friendly without losing the good stuff.
What is it about this version that makes it work for real families? I’ve gotten the spice levels just right so that you can go from very mild (for people who think “chicken nuggets are too spicy”) to just right for adults. I know how to hide vegetables in ways that really work. And I’ve added every trick and time-saving tip I’ve learned from dozens of rushed weeknight attempts.
The trust markers that matter: A parent who really understands the budget, the time pressure, the picky eaters, and the tiredness made this. I’m including real grocery prices (not vague “budget-friendly” promises), real nutrition information for those of us who care about that stuff, and safety notes for common allergies since this is naturally gluten-free, nut-free, and safe for school lunches.
What do real families think? “Finally, a curry my kids will eat!” said Sarah, a mother of three. The mild version has been approved by some very picky eaters. Other parents say they had success with meal prep: “Made it on Sunday and fed us leftovers through Wednesday.” My favorite review said, “It took 25 minutes, and my kids asked for more instead of complaining.”
Plant-based protein from chickpeas keeps kids full longer, so they don’t say “I’m hungry again” 30 minutes after dinner. This is good for their health and tastes good, too. It gets vegetables in without anyone complaining. No weird additives or artificial ingredients. More healthy than chicken nuggets, and we all know we’ve served those a lot on long nights. Also, it gives you energy for homework and activities after school without the crash that comes from eating too many processed foods.
What You’ll Need (You Probably Already Have These Things in Your Kitchen)
Things You Probably Have in Your Pantry
The Base:
- 2 tablespoons of any kind of vegetable oil or coconut oil will do.
- 1 big onion, chopped up. If you want to save time, frozen pre-diced onions are great.
- 3 cloves of garlic, chopped up, or 1 teaspoon of the jarred stuff (no judgment here)
- 1 tablespoon of fresh ginger, chopped up, or 1 teaspoon of ground ginger from your spice cabinet
- Two 15-ounce cans of chickpeas, drained. Any store brand will do.
- 1 can of diced tomatoes (14 ounces). Fire-roasted adds extra flavor, but regular is fine too.
- 1 can (14 oz) of coconut milk. For the creamiest results, use full-fat coconut milk.
Your Spice Rack:
- 2 teaspoons of curry powder; if you’re cooking for young kids, start with less.
- 1 teaspoon of ground cumin
- 1 teaspoon of ground turmeric, the yellow spice that everyone talks about as being good for you
- 1/2 teaspoon of sweet paprika, not spicy paprika
- 1/4 teaspoon of cayenne pepper is optional and only for people who are brave enough to eat it.
- Add salt to taste, which is about 1 teaspoon, but you can change it.
The New Things:
- 2 cups of chopped spinach or kale—this is how you sneak in your veggies.
- If your kids don’t like cilantro, don’t use it at all.
- Kids love to squeeze lime wedges.
To Serve:
- 3 cups of cooked rice, either white or brown, depending on what your family likes
- Plain yogurt on top—if someone thinks it’s too spicy, it cools it down.
Add-Ins That Kids Will Love:
- 1 cup of frozen peas (add them in the last 2 minutes)
- 1 cup of diced sweet potato (adds about 10 minutes, but kids love the sweetness)
- 1/2 cup of raisins (a sweet surprise that balances the savory)
- A handful of baby carrots cut into slices
Things you can use instead of real life
Let’s face it: we don’t always have everything the recipe calls for.
What the recipe says: What you really have:
- Coconut milk: Regular milk plus 1 tbsp butter; half milk and half cream
- Fresh ginger: 1 tsp ground ginger; skip it (it still tastes great)
- lentils:Chickpeas: white beans or lentils; try both and see which one your kids like better
- Curry powder: mild taco seasoning, just cumin and paprika
- Spinach: frozen spinach (thawed); blend it in so it’s not visible
- Fresh cilantro: parsley or skip it; skip for cilantro-haters
Changes that are safe for people with allergies:
- Coconut milk is dairy-free (it already is!).
- Nut allergies: This recipe doesn’t call for nuts at all.
- If you can’t eat gluten, serve it with rice instead of naan bread.
Equipment (very little, I promise)
The Basics:
- A big, deep skillet or Dutch oven with a lid
- Spoon or spatula made of wood
- Opener for cans
- Cutting board and knife
- Spoons for measuring
Good to Have but Not Necessary:
- Set it and forget it while you make the curry in the rice cooker.
- An immersion blender will make it smooth for picky eaters.
- Garlic press (saves time on busy nights when you don’t have time to chop)
- Garlic and ginger paste that comes in a jar
Time-Saving Tips for Parents:
- Use a food processor to chop onions, or just buy frozen ones that are already diced.
- Instant Pot (the pressure cooker version only takes 15 minutes!)
- Slow cooker: Put everything in in the morning and come home to dinner.
Let’s Get This Done: Step by Step
How to Break Down Time for Busy Parents:
- Prep time: 10 minutes (a great time for kids to set the table!)
- Time to cook: 20 minutes
- Time: 30 minutes in total
- About 15 minutes of hands-on time (the rest is just simmering).
- 📍 Level of difficulty: Easy—seriously, you can do this! ⭐
Multi-Tasking Game Plan: The Key to Success
- Start with the rice (it takes 20 to 25 minutes to cook).
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- Make your curry while the rice cooks (20 minutes).
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- Everything is done at the same time, which means dinner is ready!
Step 1: Start the rice (2 minutes)
Before anything else, do this first. You can trust me on this. Get 1.5 cups of rice and 3 cups of water. Put it in your rice cooker or on the stove to cook. Put a timer on it and then forget about it. If you’re really short on time, use instant rice. It will be ready in five minutes at the most. Or the rice bags that go in the microwave? One minute and thirty seconds. No shame in what I do. While you’re at it, make some extra rice. Does anyone want fried rice later this week? Kids can totally measure rice and water if they are 8 years old or older. This is a great first cooking task that makes them feel useful!
Step 2: Get Your Aromatics Ready (5 Minutes)
While your rice cooks, chop the onion into small pieces, mince (or press) the three garlic cloves, and grate or mince the ginger.
Shortcuts that save time (because we care about getting things done):
- Get diced onion from the freezer section; it’s already done!
- Use minced garlic from a jar (1 clove = 1 teaspoon).
- One teaspoon of ground ginger is fine.
Get the kids involved:
- Ages 5 and up: They can peel garlic cloves (kids love to peel things).
- Ages 10 and up: Chopping with a butter knife under supervision
- Ages 3 and up: With your help, they can open cans.
Why this is important: These smells are what give your curry its flavor. Don’t forget the garlic; that’s where the magic happens.
Step 3: Cook the Base in a Pan for 5 Minutes
Put the oil in a big pan and turn the heat to medium. Put in the diced onion and cook it for about three minutes, or until it becomes soft and see-through (that’s what they call it, but who cares what it’s called?). Then add the ginger and garlic and cook for another minute, or until your kitchen smells great. What you’ll see: The onions get soft and lose their crunch. The garlic should smell good, but it shouldn’t turn brown. If it does, it will taste bad, and you’ll have to start over. A common mistake parents make is to turn the heat up too high, which burns the garlic and makes dinner sad. Be patient for these few minutes and keep the heat at medium. While this cooks, open your cans, drain the chickpeas in a colander, and get your spices ready by measuring them out.
Step 4: Toast your spices for 1 minute.
IfFriends, this is the moment of magic. Put the cumin, turmeric, curry powder, and paprika in the pan. For 30 to 60 seconds, stir all the time. Those spices will “wake up” and smell amazing. Why we do this: Toasting takes away the raw, dusty taste of the spice and makes it taste better, like in a restaurant. It’s the difference between “meh” and “MOM, THIS IS SO GOOD! ” If you’re cooking for kids or picky eaters, start with just 1 teaspoon of curry powder. You can always add more after you’ve tasted it. And for sure, don’t add cayenne pepper for kids’ taste buds. Later, adults can add hot sauce to their own bowls. Visual cue: As the spices evenly coat the onions, the mixture smells great and turns a yellow-orange color.
Step 5: Add the tomatoes and chickpeas (1 minute).
Time to dump! Add your drained chickpeas and diced tomatoes (with all the juice—don’t drain them!). Mix everything together. Quick tip: Fire-roasted tomatoes give a dish a smokier flavor, but regular diced tomatoes work just as well. If you only have plain crushed tomatoes, that’s fine too. If your kids are picky eaters, you can blend the tomatoes with an immersion blender first so they don’t freak out about the chunks. It’s fine if some kids like smooth curry. But for older kids and adults, chunky tomatoes add a nice texture.
Step 6: Add the coconut milk and let it simmer for 10 minutes.
Shake the can of coconut milk very well (the cream will separate and float to the top), and then pour the whole thing into your skillet. Mix everything together until it’s all mixed in. Heat it up until it starts to bubble, then turn the heat down to low, cover the pan partially with the lid, and let it simmer for 10 minutes. Every now and then, stir it. While it’s simmering, the flavors are mixing and getting to know each other. The chickpeas are getting soft and soaking up all that tasty sauce. The curry is getting a little thicker. The busy parent window: This 10-minute simmer is GREAT for setting the table, making a quick salad, or helping someone with their homework. Set a timer so you don’t forget about it!
Guide to thickness:
- Is it too thick? Add 1/4 cup of broth or water.
- Too thin? Let it simmer for three more minutes without a lid.
- Just right? It should coat the back of a spoon well.
Step 7: Add greens and seasoning (3 minutes)
Add your chopped spinach or kale and stir. It will wilt in one to two minutes. Taste it now (but let it cool on a spoon first!) and add salt. Usually, about 1 teaspoon is enough, but trust your taste buds. Add a tiny bit of sugar to balance out the acidity if the tomatoes make it taste too sour. The veggie stealth move: When you cook spinach, it shrinks down to almost nothing. Your kids probably won’t even see it. Or you could use an immersion blender to make it completely smooth. “It’s only green from the spices, honey!” (We’ve all done it.)
Checklist for taste testing:
- Does it need more salt? Put it in.
- Is it too spicy for the kids? Add some extra yogurt or coconut milk and mix it in.
- Not enough flavor? Put in a little more curry powder.
To make it kid-friendly, serve the mild curry with hot sauce on the side for adults who want more heat. Let the kids squeeze their own lime wedges. They love having a job at the table.
Step 8: Serve and watch them eat it! (2 Minutes)
First, put rice in bowls, and then pour that beautiful curry on top. Let your kids pick their own toppings. This will make them more likely to eat it.
Kids LOVE this idea for a topping bar:
- Yogurt without any flavor (to cool)
- Cilantro (optional)
- Lime wedges (squeeze them for fun!)
- Dipping naan bread
- Raisins (adds sweetness)
Serving sizes that are good:
- Adults: 1.5 cups of curry and 1 cup of rice
- Kids: Change the amount based on their age and how hungry they are (my 5-year-old eats about 3/4 cup of curry).
- 1/2 cup of curry and 1/2 cup of rice for toddlers
Pro tip for parents: Give it to them with something they already like, like cucumber slices, carrot sticks, or plain bread. For picky eaters, trying new things is a lot less scary when they have foods they know next to them.
Making It Work for Your Family
For People Who Don’t Like Food (I Know How It Feels)
- Start with only one teaspoon of curry powder and add more as they get used to the taste.
- Use an immersion blender to mix the curry until it is completely smooth, with no “chunks” to pick out.
- If they really don’t like green things, set aside their portion before you add the spinach.
- Serve it with sides that they are already used to, like plain rice and bread.
- Let them pick their own toppings. Kids are more likely to try new things if they feel like they own them!
For People Who Love Spice
- Add twice as much curry powder (or even three times as much).
- Put in the cayenne or red pepper flakes.
- Add spicy pickles to the side.
- Adults can add fresh jalapeños to their bowls when they want to.
For Problems with Texture (I Get It)
- For a creamier texture, mash about half of the chickpeas.
- Make everything smooth with an immersion blender.
- Cut all the vegetables into very small pieces so they don’t stand out as much.
- If you need to, strain out the chunks. This isn’t the best thing to do for their health, but it’s better than them not eating at all.
Different Ways to Make the Recipe (Because Everyone Likes Change)
“Butter Chickpea” Version (Very Mild) Instead of coconut milk, use heavy cream. At the very end, add 2 tablespoons of butter and cut the curry powder down to 1 teaspoon. This version of butter chicken will drive kids crazy!
Adding Sweet Potatoes (10 More Minutes) Instead of 10 minutes, add 2 cups of diced sweet potato and the chickpeas and let them simmer for 15 minutes. Kids really like the natural sweetness, and it’s more filling and healthy.
Version for the Slow Cooker (Dump & Go) Sauté your onion, garlic, ginger, and spices on the stove for 5 minutes, then put everything in your slow cooker. Low heat for 6 to 8 hours or high heat for 3 to 4 hours. Put in the spinach during the last 10 minutes. This is great for those mornings when you have 10 minutes to spare!
Version for the Instant Pot (15 Minutes Total) For five minutes, use the sauté mode to cook the onions, garlic, ginger, and spices. Put in the coconut milk, tomatoes, and chickpeas. Cook on HIGH for 5 minutes, then let it go down naturally for 10 minutes. After the pressure has gone down, add the spinach. Finished!
Ways to Get More Protein
- Add cubed tofu to get more protein.
- Add cooked lentils and stir.
- Put hard-boiled eggs on top.
- Add shredded rotisserie chicken for family members who need meat at every meal.
Budget Breakdown (A Real Look at Costs)
Cost per serving: $2.50 The whole recipe costs about $10 and serves four people.
This is where the $10 goes:
- Two cans of chickpeas cost $2.00.
- Coconut milk costs $1.50.
- $1.00 for diced tomatoes
- Onion: 50 cents
- Ginger and garlic: $0.50
- $1.00 for spices (if you’re buying new bottles)
- $2.00 for spinach
- $1.50 for rice
- Total: About $10
A parent who is careful with their money gives these tips:
- Get spices in the bulk section. They are so much cheaper than in jars!
- Buy a lot of canned goods when they’re on sale.
- Frozen spinach is about half the price of fresh spinach.
- Store-brand ingredients work just as well as name-brand ones.
- Make two batches and freeze one for next week.
vs. A reality check on takeout:
- Four people can get curry to go for $40 to $60.
- This homemade kind costs $10.
- You just saved $30 to $50!
That sounds like a night of movies with the family.
Nutrition Facts (Because Some of Us Care)
For each serving (1/4 of the recipe):
- Calories: 380
- 12 g of protein (which is important for kids who are growing!)
- 48 grams of carbs
- 10 g of fiber (keeps them full until bedtime, so they don’t ask for snacks at midnight)
- 15 g of fat (healthy fats from coconut milk)
- Sugar: 8 g (natural, no added sugar)
Why Parents Like This Food This bowl has everything you need for a meal: protein, carbs, and vegetables. The chickpeas are a good source of plant-based protein that keeps kids full. They won’t even know they’re eating vegetables that are hidden. No strange ingredients or preservatives. Because it doesn’t have gluten or nuts in it, it’s safe for school lunches. And the complex carbs keep kids from getting cranky before bed by keeping their energy levels stable.
Benefits for kids:
- Keeps them full during homework time (no “I’m hungry” complaints 20 minutes later).
- A lot better for them than the highly processed snacks they wanted.
- Turmeric is good for inflammation, which could mean fewer sick days!
- Chickpeas have iron in them, which is good for growing bodies.
- Tomatoes have vitamin C, which helps the immune system.
For Your Sanity: Storage and Meal Prep
Storage in the fridge
- Type of container: glass or plastic containers that are airtight
- In the fridge, it lasts for 4 to 5 days.
- To reheat, microwave for 2 to 3 minutes, stirring halfway through.
- New tip: When you heat it up again, add a little water to keep it from drying out.
Storing in the freezer (an actual lifesaver)
- Lasts in the freezer for up to three months.
- Best way: Cut into pieces that are the right size for each person.
- Containers: Use freezer-safe containers or heavy-duty freezer bags.
- Put a label on it that says “Chickpea Curry—Made [date]” so you don’t forget what it is.
- Thawing: In the fridge overnight or on the microwave’s defrost setting
Plan your meals for crazy weeknights.
Sunday morning routine:
- Make two batches on Sunday afternoon.
- Put the food into four containers, one for each dinner on Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday.
- Put a label on each one with the day.
- Just heat it up and eat when you get home!
How to make meals in the freezer:
- Make three batches at once (it takes about an hour).
- Put in the freezer in family-sized amounts.
- Take one out in the morning when you know the day will be crazy.
- In 5 minutes, dinner will be ready!
School night assembly line:
- Make rice on Sunday and put it in the fridge.
- On Sunday, make curry.
- Every night, microwave the rice and curry together to reheat them.
- It feels like a new dinner and doesn’t take much work.
Ideas for lunchboxes:
- Put it in a thermos for school lunch that stays hot.
- Kids love to dip naan bread in this.
- Put some fruit and vegetables on the side.
- Give them plain yogurt to mix in.
Answering Your Questions (For Real Parents)
Will my picky eater really eat this curry?
The short answer is yes! Start with mild flavors, let them choose their own toppings, and let them help cook.
The plan in detail: For your first try, only use one teaspoon of curry powder. Let them help make it. Kids are much more likely to try something they helped make. Serve it with sides they already like, like plain rice or bread. Make that topping bar so they can choose what they want to eat. Don’t push it. The “no thank you bite” rule works well: they take one bite, and if they really don’t like it, they don’t have to eat it. But most kids come around after seeing it a few times. A lot of parents have told me, “I was surprised my kid actually ate this!”
Changes in texture: For kids who don’t like chunks, use an immersion blender to make it completely smooth. They can choose anything they don’t like (it’s fine, we’re all doing our best). Some kids like it better when they dip naan bread in it. Add it to rice to make the curry less obvious.
Can I prepare this ahead of time for busy weeknights?
Yes, definitely! The next day, it tastes better.
Plan ahead for the game: Make the curry on Sunday and put it in the fridge. From Monday through Thursday, just heat up the parts you need. In the microwave, each serving takes 2 to 3 minutes. Every night, make new rice (or use those microwave pouches that only take 90 seconds).
The magic of freezer meals: Make this on a weekend when you don’t have anything else to do. Put it in the freezer in small amounts. Let it thaw in the fridge overnight. It’s a lifesaver on weeknights when you forget to plan dinner!
How do I change the amount of spice for kids and adults?
The short answer is to make it mild and let adults add heat at the table.
The family recipe: You only need 1 to 2 teaspoons of mild curry powder to cook the whole batch. Don’t add the cayenne pepper at all. Adults can add hot sauce to their own bowls by putting it on the table. The kids will never know that it could have been hotter!
How much spice is comfortable for each age:
- Ages 2–5: Very mild (1 teaspoon of curry powder)
- Ages 6 to 10: Mild (2 teaspoons of curry powder)
- Teens and adults: the full recipe or even spicier
- If you like spicy food, add cayenne, red pepper flakes, or hot sauce.
Things that cool kids do: Have some plain yogurt on hand to put on top. Add more rice to the dish to make it less spicy. Keep a glass of milk close by (milk works much better than water). Sweet things like raisins help balance out spicy flavors.
What if I don’t have all the spices?
The short answer is that you can make great curry with just curry powder and garlic.
twoMinimum spice version: Two tablespoons of curry powder and three cloves of garlic. That’s all there is to it, and it still tastes great.
How to build up your spice cabinet: Start with just curry powder, which costs $3 to $4 for a good jar. Next time you make it, add cumin ($2–3). Take your time to grow your collection. It’s much cheaper to buy small amounts from the bulk bins at grocery stores than to buy full jars.
In case of an emergency, here are some substitutes:
- No curry powder? You can use garam masala or even mild chili powder.
- No cumin? Just add more curry powder.
- No turmeric? Don’t do it (it changes the color more than the taste).
Is it okay to use my Instant Pot or slow cooker?
Yes, in short. Both work well, and to be honest, they’re even easier.
The Instant Pot method takes 15 minutes total: For five minutes, use the sauté mode to cook the spices, onions, garlic, and ginger. Put in the coconut milk, tomatoes, and chickpeas. Put the pressure cooker on HIGH for 5 minutes. Let it go for 10 minutes on its own. Add the spinach and stir. Finished!
The slow cooker method (put it in and forget about it): Sauté the onions, garlic, and spices on the stove for 5 minutes. This step makes a big difference in flavor. Put it in your slow cooker. Put in all the other ingredients except the spinach. Cook on LOW for 6 to 8 hours or HIGH for 3 to 4 hours. Add the spinach in the last 10 minutes. Great for busy mornings when you have 10 minutes to get ready!
How can I add more veggies to this without anyone noticing?
Short answer: There are a lot of choices! Peas, carrots, sweet potatoes, and cauliflower all work well.
Sneaky ways to add veggies:
- Blend the spinach completely with an immersion blender (they’ll never know!).
- Sweet potato: Cut it into small pieces to make it sweet, which kids really like.
- Frozen peas: Add them in the last two minutes (it’s so easy!).
- Carrots: Grated or cut into small pieces
- Cauliflower: thickens and breaks down the sauce
- Add bell peppers to the onions and cook until soft.
The trick to blending: Use an immersion blender to blend everything until it is completely smooth after cooking. “It tastes like orange because of the spices!” This works on a lot of kids who don’t like vegetables.
Slow introduction: This week, just eat chickpeas. The next time you make it, add a new vegetable. Repeated exposure will help people accept things. Don’t give up after just one try. Kids may need to try new foods 10 times or more before they like them!
Is this really good for you or just good?
The short answer is: both! It’s really good for your family, filling, and healthy.
Real health benefits:
- Chickpeas have 12 grams of protein per serving, which helps build muscles.
- Coconut milk has healthy fats that are good for brain growth.
- Tomatoes have vitamin C and lycopene, which help the immune system.
- Turmeric: It has anti-inflammatory properties (it heals naturally).
- Iron and calcium in spinach help build strong bones.
- No junk: no preservatives, artificial colors, or strange ingredients
Better than getting food delivered: no MSG or other additives, less sodium than restaurant versions, you can choose exactly what goes in it, it has a lot more vegetables, and less oil.
Approved by a registered dietitian: It has a good balance of protein, carbs, and healthy fats, and it has a lot of fiber (10 g), which keeps kids full. It’s also a great source of plant-based protein (great for Meatless Monday) and is naturally gluten- and nut-free.
What goes well with this curry?
Answer: Rice or naan bread, plus simple sides that your kids already like.
Main side dishes:
- Basmati rice is a classic choice, whether it’s white or brown.
- Kids love to dip naan bread!
- Pita or flatbread: a simple choice
- Quinoa: For families who care about their health
- Roti/chapati: A traditional choice
Simple side dishes:
- Slices of cucumber (cool and refreshing)
- Yogurt without any flavor (for dipping and cooling)
- Carrot sticks (a familiar crunch)
- Apple slices (sweet difference)
- Simple salad (if your kids eat salad, you’re lucky!)
Full meal plan for the whole family:
- Curry and rice (that’s your main meal right there)
- Pita or naan bread for dipping
- Carrot or cucumber sticks (familiar crunch)
- Dessert: fruit (keep it simple on weeknights!)
Honestly, this curry already has protein and vegetables in it. Add a grain, like rice or bread, and maybe one simple side. Don’t make weeknight dinners too hard when you’re already tired!
How can I get my kids to help make this?
Short answer: Kids love to help! Give them tasks that are appropriate for their age, and watch them smile with pride when dinner is ready.
Ages 3 to 5:
- Opening cans with your help and supervision
- Mixing things together in a big bowl
- The chickpeas love water, so rinse them in the colander.
- Squeezing lime wedges at the table (so fun!)
- Putting the table together
Ages 6 to 9:
- Getting the right amount of rice and water
- Removing the skin from garlic cloves
- Putting spices into small bowls (a great way to practice math!)
- Cleaning vegetables
- Cutting spinach into pieces
- Shake the can of coconut milk (very important!).
Ages 10 and up:
- Chop with supervision (start with soft veggies).
- Sautéing onions with close attention
- Following the steps of a recipe more on your own
- Stirring at the stove
- Taste-testing and helping to change the seasonings
Why it’s worth the extra mess to get kids involved: They are much more likely to eat what they helped make. They’re learning important skills for life. It’s time with the family that doesn’t involve screens. They use measuring to practice math! It’s a short science lesson about what happens when we heat spices. Plus, seeing how proud they are when everyone likes the dinner they helped make is priceless.
Is it possible to make this without coconut milk?
Yes, in short. You can use regular milk and butter or half-and-half.
Alternatives to coconut milk:
- Regular milk and 2 tablespoons of butter will give you a texture that is very similar to cream.
- Half-and-half: thick and creamy
- Heavy cream is very rich. To make it, mix 1 cup of cream with 1/2 cup of regular milk.
- To make cashew cream, mix 1 cup of cashews with 1 cup of water.
- To keep plain yogurt from curdling, stir it off the heat.
Why some families don’t eat coconut: Some kids don’t like the taste of coconut. Worries about allergies. Like a milder taste. Or you just don’t have it on hand, and it’s 6 p.m., and dinner needs to happen right away.
Differences in taste: Dairy versions taste less exotic and are milder. Coconut adds the real, slightly sweet flavor to curry. Both versions taste great, to be honest! Try both and see which one your family likes best.
Real Talk in a Nutshell
We understand. You’re taking care of work calls, helping with homework, picking up kids from soccer practice, and answering the never-ending question of “What’s for dinner?” This chickpea curry isn’t just another recipe to add to your full Pinterest board; it’s your backup plan for those nights when you’re running on empty but still need to feed your family something healthy.
What sets this apart from all the other “quick dinner” recipes?
- Something you can really do on a Tuesday at 6 p.m. when you’re tired
- I know it’s hard to believe, but your kids might actually eat it without complaining.
- Costs a lot less than ordering pizza to be delivered
- You won’t feel bad about serving this instead of another processed meal.
The promise: Give this one a real shot. Just one. We think it will become your new weeknight hero, the one you call when everything else seems too hard.
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